What to Expect from a Real Gangbang

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September 10, 2022

While porn might be fun and exciting to watch, its existence has greatly skewed the view we have on many sex concepts. To the general public, for instance, gangbangs are aggressive and violent sexual ventures. Many people even believe they involve actual rape! But, in the BDSM community, that couldn’t be further from the truth. Real gangbangs are fun, enjoyable, and most importantly consensual. And, in this article, we’re talking about them. 

We’re going to be discussing what a real gangbang is and what it actually looks like. Then, we’ll be providing some tips for planning your first one and sharing everything you can expect from it. 

What is a Gangbang? 

As we mentioned above, a gangbang is an entirely consensual experience. While it’s true that some might get a little rough (depending on the participants and their preferences), everything that happens is agreed upon beforehand. These events are planned events and, when executed correctly, can be a whole lot of fun. 

The most accepted definition of a gangbag is an experience where three (or more) partners engage in sexual intercourse with one willing participant. 

women preparing for first real gangbang

Tips for Planning Your First Real Gangbang

Believe it or not, gangbangs happen all the time. These planned events take place in swinger clubs, gangbang parties, and even in the comfort of a participant’s home. They are much less formal than porn might portray, but they still require some planning. Here are tips for getting the most out of your first real gangbang. 

1. Consider Participants Wisely

From friends to random strangers on the Internet, there are many people to consider for a gangbang. Make sure to consider them wisely. You’ll want to find participants who value consent and are willing to respect the boundaries of everyone involved. It’s also important to choose someone who takes the rules seriously. Take the time to meet with potential participants and discuss their expectations before inviting them to the actual event. 

2. Take Time to Set the Rules

Rules are important for any scenario to ensure that each participant is enjoying themselves. Some common gangbang rules are to:

  • Take a shower before the event
  • Always be polite during the event
  • Openly communicate your needs
  • Bring your own supplies
  • Play well will everyone involved

3. Prioritize Consent and Safety

Besides satisfaction and enjoyment, consent and safety are the most important components of any gangbang. Prioritize safe sex by asking everyone to bring their own forms of protection, and encourage the most communication before anything takes place. A gangbang should never be a rushed event; it is something that requires quite a bit of time and planning to work out perfectly. 

woman laying on bed in real gangbang

Your First Gangbang Should be a Satisfying One

It’s not difficult to make your first real gangbang an enjoyable one, it just requires a bit of planning beforehand. Take some time to browse the blog on SwingTowns to learn more about consent, enjoyable gangbangs, and ground rules you might be interested in employing. Then, head out there and make your gangbang fantasy a reality! 


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