Tips for Being a Successful Swinger

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The swinging lifestyle sounds fun, exciting, and unforgettable. And, it is! It also requires a bit of strategy and effort. That’s because being a successful swinger isn’t something that just happens. However, if you’d like to “have your cake and eat it too, ” this blog post is for you. 

We’re giving you all the advice on being a successful swinger and enjoying all the lifestyle has to offer. First, we’ll be talking about what a swinger actually is. Then, we’ll share some tips to help you succeed no matter what you do. 

What is a Swinger

In the world of open relationships and consensual non-monogamy, a swinger is someone with a partner (usually married) who engages in sexual activities with other couples. Swingers enjoy multiple casual partners, and many people adopt the term as a sort of identity. 

While there are some instances of orgies among swingers, most activities take place with two couples. 

couple enjoying successful swinger life at party

Tips to Help You Become a Successful Swinger

Not everyone is successful in the swinging lifestyle. This is because feelings like jealousy, regret, and guilt can arise that take the whole relationship off course. Enjoying the swinger lifestyle as a successful swinger isn’t difficult though. Here are the top tips to help. 

  • Prioritize Communication with Your Partner

Communication with your partner is critical to success in the swinger lifestyle. The reason is because they are the other half of your relationship together! Your partner needs to know about your desires and fantasies. They should know about your fears and worries, too. The more you communicate with each other, the better your experience will go. 

Remember, the key difference between cheating and swinging is permission and communication. 

  • Take Baby Steps

There’s no reason to rush into anything, especially when it comes to being a successful swinger. Start your new adventure with simple conversations and fantasy-sharing. Then, ease your way into it with your partner and best friend. A soft swap may be one of the best places to start. 

  • Join Swinger Websites

Believe it or not, websites dedicated to the swinger lifestyle (like SwingTowns) are extremely helpful. Not only do they provide valuable guidance and information for newbies to the lifestyle, but they can also help you meet new partners and find parties and clubs in your area. These unique websites act as one-stop shops for everything a swinger needs, from knowledge to connection. 

  • Pay Attention to Swinging Etiquette

While the swinger lifestyle might seem wild and crazy, there is an etiquette to follow. And, knowing about this from the get-go could be extremely helpful to your success in the lifestyle. Some of the most important unspoken “rules” to know about are to:

  • Never complain about your spouse/partner
  • Respond to all invitations
  • Avoid being pushy
  • Vet your partners carefully
  • Always respect boundaries
  • Minimize your expectations
  • Respect people’s feelings

successful swinger couple

It’s Not Difficult to be a Successful Swinger

Finding success in the swinger lifestyle is so much easier than you think! As long as you follow the rules and stay conscious along the way, you are sure to find some fun and excitement. And, SwingTowns is here to help. Our blog is dedicated to providing updated, relevant information to help everyone become a successful swinger. 

From helping you set boundaries to finding parties near you, we have everything! 

Start reading today to learn more. 


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