Swingers Don’t Divorce: Why Swinger Couples are Happier

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In today’s society, where marital separation and divorce grow more common by the year, it’s surprising to learn that swingers don’t divorce. At least, not nearly as often as their monogamous peers. Is it possible that this relationship style is the key to preserving marriage for a lifetime?

In this article, we’re breaking down the main differences between swingers and monogamous couples. Then, we’re sharing the main reasons why marital success remains so much higher in those who choose to open their relationships. 

Swingers Don’t Divorce Because Their Sexual Satisfaction is So High

Believe it or not, one of the very first indicators of an impending divorce is a decrease in the wife’s orgasm frequency. It sounds a little crazy, and not what most people look for when judging the likelihood of marital success. However, this correlation is solid proof that sexual satisfaction is directly related to marital satisfaction. That is to say: an unhappy sex life = an unhappy marriage. 

This is where open relationships have it figured out and one of the main reasons that swingers don’t divorce. Their sexual fulfillment is simply so high that they’re able to work through any other differences or struggles more easily. 

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The Reasons Why Swingers Don’t Divorce as Often as Monogamous Couples

So, sex is important to a successful marriage. But, it’s not the only contributing factor. And, it’s not the only reason why swingers don’t divorce as often as those involved in monogamous relationships. Thankfully though, we’re finally getting some real insight into the true operation of swinger relationships. And, these are the top reasons why divorce just isn’t as common in them. 

  • Swingers are More Adaptable

A relationship’s success isn’t only dependent on the way the couple interacts with each other. It also relies heavily on the maturity and adaptability of each individual involved. This is one area where swingers are able to shine. There is no question about the adaptability and flexibility of swingers. Unlike their monogamous counterparts, swinger couples have less fear, are significantly less likely to cheat, and prioritize emotional connection more often. Swingers are refuse to simply give in to feelings of jealousy, demanding that their partner helps them feel better. Instead, individuals experiencing jealousy learn to work through those feelings and triggers on their own, growing along the way. In short, swingers don’t divorce because they’re more likely to learn to adapt.  

  • Swingers Prioritize Communication

Communication is obviously an important part of any relationship, whether sexual or not. However, in swinger relationships, open communication, honesty, and transparency are required. Research shows that talking about sexual preferences, fantasies, needs, and desires greatly increases sexual satisfaction. It also helps someone understand their partner on a much deeper level. 

For swingers, these conversations are non-negotiable. In order for everyone to have their needs met, and to avoid being walked all over, communication must be taken seriously. This ongoing dialogue presents one of the biggest advantages for a successful marriage. 

swingers having a good time together

If Swingers Don’t Divorce, is This Lifestyle Right for Your Relationship?

With divorce rates among monogamous couples only growing more common by the year, it’s important to actively choose not to go down that route for your marriage. And swinging can help. SwingTowns is one of the best resources for navigating the swinging lifestyle and learning ways to incorporate it into your own relationship.  

Sign up for the Forums today to connect with real-life swingers and learn what the lifestyle is really all about. 


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