Sex Party Etiquette to Know Before You Go

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Modern-day sex parties are filled with fun times and good feelings. They aren’t a wild, crazy free-for-all, however. And, there is a sex party etiquette you’ll be required to follow if you ever attend one. Guidelines and expectations help create an enjoyable environment that prioritizes consent and the comfort of everyone. And, we’re going to talk about them. 

This article introduces you to sex party etiquette and how you can prepare to be the best guest on the list. Then, we’ll tell you everything you need to know before you head out the door to the sex party of your dreams. 

woman on bar displaying sex party etiquette

How to Have the Best Sex Party Etiquette

In order to be on the next guest list, your sex party etiquette needs to be on the top of its game. Respect and consent are two extremely important words at any sex party, and they should lead the way you carry yourself. Here’s the best advice for your sex party etiquette before, during, and after the event. 

Prepare Your Sex Party Etiquette Before the Main Event

  • Prepare Your Goodies

Most of the protection and party favors will be provided by the host, but it’s always helpful to carry a few backups yourself. Grab an extra box of condoms for easy access. You might also consider bringing lube, wet wipes, and some sex toys you don’t mind sharing. 

  • Practice Good Hygiene

During this event, you will be closer than normal to a lot of people. There will be sweat and body fluids everywhere, and the last thing you want to do is find yourself feeling embarrassed. Take a shower, brush your teeth, and clean yourself up before the party t increase your chances of having a wonderful night. 

Etiquette to Know During the Party

  • It’s Okay to Watch

There are no expectations for you to jump right in on all the fun, especially if this is your first sex party. In fact, watching is not only okay but also totally encouraged. Many couples enjoy having time as the center of attention. Just make sure to ask for permission, first. 

  • Try Not to Drink too Much

In order to maintain your boundaries (and actually remember everything that happened), it’s so important to monitor your alcohol intake. Pace yourself and keep track of your drinks to stay safe and present. 

Maintain Sex Party Etiquette Even When it’s Over

  • Show Gratitude to the Host and Participants

Hosting a sex party and monitoring the participants is no easy task. While winding down and getting ready to leave, take time to thank the host and other people at the party. You can do this with your words, or by helping to clean up before you leave. 

woman reminding camera of proper sex party etiquette

Start Preparing for Your Next Sex Party Now

A sex party, whether your first or 100th, should be a fun, exciting, enjoyable experience. Knowing and following the proper etiquette can help you guarantee this happens. When you carry yourself as a safe and respectful person, people are more likely to want you to come to their parties. 

So, start preparing your go bag and brush up on your etiquette while scheduling the sex party you’ll never forget. 


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