MMF Threesomes and Swinging – Everything You Need to Know

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Lots of couples get together and never think beyond typical relationship milestones: marriage, kids, comfortably farting around each other, etc. But some couples–those who rock at things like communication and trust–can take things even further. They can openly and honestly talk to one another about their wildest sexual fantasies and make them a reality. MMF threesomes and swinging are some of the most common sexual fantasies out there, and with SwingTowns (“the World’s Friendliest Dating Site” serving millions of members all over the world), it’s easier than ever to get started!

Here are some things you should know before diving in.

Why is the swinger lifestyle popular?

A couple could enter the swinger lifestyle for any number of reasons, but one of the most common is simply to spice things up! Some people just can’t imagine having sex with one person forever, yet they still want the simplicity and stability of a single relationship.

The swinger lifestyle gives you just that!

While many people worry about their sex lives becoming stale as their marriage ages, swinging can actually make things more exciting as it yields new experiences and practice which can make you a better lover. For couples with a strong foundation who trust each other enough to invite others into bed, swinging experiences can be incredibly rewarding. That’s why swinger websites have blown up in recent years! Swinger clubs are popping up all over the world, and SwingTowns.com (the #1 swinger website) has millions of members and growing.

Who joins swinger websites?

Some people join swinger sites just because they’re curious about the swinger lifestyle and want to learn more about it before jumping in. This lifestyle is adopted by people just like you: people with normal lives and families who just want to switch things up in the bedroom (or at the club). They do the research, realizing that they align with swinger values, and decide to take the plunge. They don’t just want to sit around fantasizing about threesomes and group orgies – they want to seize the day and experience it!

Of course, it’s best to start small and go from there. Successful people in the lifestyle access websites for swingers, chat with couples, swap pics, go to clubs, and take it one step at a time until they eventually have that first swinger experience. Some will go full-swap right away, but lots of couples like to start with just one addition to their play, such as in an MMF threesome.

Along the way, they have lots of open and honest communication, set boundaries, and take breaks when they need to. Trust and consent always come first!

When should you try MMF threesomes and swinging?

Many couples think about having a threesome long before they even meet each other. It’s a little taboo, so we don’t often talk about it, but threesomes are a super common fantasy for both men and women.

That said, just because you both want to do it, doesn’t mean you’re ready.

Whenever a couple considers opening things up, such as with an MMF threesome, it should only be done with the intention of adding to an already stellar relationship. That’s because relationship problems (like a lack of trust) are often exacerbated by involving more people, though some incorrectly believe it can fix things. If you and your partner have a solid foundation of trust, good communication, and love for one another, then consensual swinging is probably right for you!

When you’re ready to have that first MMF threesome, you can find it on reliable swinger sites. For example, there are many attractive single men on SwingTowns.com looking to join other couples. Getting started is as easy signing up (it’s free) and browsing hot local singles. Again, you have to be certain that you and your partner are on the same page. If you think you need to learn more about swinging before jumping, we offer all the advice you need on our blog. Check out our popular reads on “MMF experience.”

What are the best positions for an MMF threesome?

With MMF threesomes, there are all kinds of new positions to try. Some popular ones include: the high five (great for eye contact); the doggy blowjob (pretty self-explanatory); the daisy chain (an advanced move that can put you in the giving and receiving position); the reverse high five (great for bisexual or bi-curious men); the double stuff (self-explanatory and great for women who want to feel two men inside at the same time).

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