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When looking for couples to hook up with, there are a few things you should and shouldn’t do when creating a swinger profile. Whether you’re looking for a one-time swing or a long-term swinging relationship, these tips will help you reel in quality couples and make the most of the swingers’ lifestyle. This is a sex-positive environment, so let’s show the world what you’ve got!

Upgrade to a paid account

If you’re interested in connecting with other swingers, upgrading to a paid account is a great way to improve your chances. With a paid account, you’ll have access to features that free members don’t, like messaging and advanced searches. You’ll also be able to connect with swingers in other areas, which can be helpful if you’re planning a trip or just want to explore your options. Overall, upgrading to a paid account is a small investment that can go a long way in helping you connect with other swingers.

For swingers, becoming certified (or verified) is the next step in improving their swinger profile. This process allows members to vouch for each other, and it helps to build trust within the community. Each swinger site handles this slightly differently, but the basic idea is that certified members are more likely to be genuine and trustworthy. 

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Put effort into your profile

When creating a profile on a swingers website, it is important to show that you are putting in a genuine effort. This means writing something original and honest that will give other swingers a good idea of who you are. If you are struggling for ideas, take a look at other swinger profiles to see what others are saying. However, don’t simply copy someone else’s story – be creative and genuine. By putting in the extra effort you’ll be sure to reap the rewards.

Feature quality pictures in your swinger profile

Swingers are often hesitant to put up pictures of themselves on swingers websites or apps. This is understandable – after all, discretion is important to a lot of members of this lifestyle. However, it is crucial to remember that potential friends are more likely to respond to profiles with pictures. When choosing pictures to upload, it is important to be both sexy and discreet. Photos that show both members of the couple are especially effective, as they give potential friends a sense of what you both look like. Blurring faces and backgrounds can help to protect your identity, while still giving others a sense of what you look like.

Be open-minded

It’s important to keep an open mind when creating your swinger profile. Too often, couples focus on finding partners who meet their specific criteria. While there’s nothing wrong with having a type, this approach can often lead to missed opportunities. After all, swinging is all about exploring new connections and expanding your sexual horizons. So why not open yourself up to the many potential partners that swingers sites have to offer? You might just be surprised at who you find yourself attracted to.

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Be proactive

When you’re perusing swinger profiles, it’s easy to fall into the trap of passively skimming through photos and snippets of text. However, if you come across a swinger profile you like and you to want to make a connection, it’s important to take the time to read their profile and send them a quality message. By taking the time to read a profile and craft a thoughtful message, you can show that you’re genuinely interested in getting to know them. In addition, by mentioning specific things you have in common, you can increase the chances of sparking a conversation and potentially meeting up in person. So next time you come across an interesting profile, don’t be afraid to reach out and start chatting. 

Make it easy for them 

Families and work keep many couples busy in their vanilla lives. You should make it easy for them. Propose a real-life meeting once you’ve established a connection. Making it easier for them by offering to make reservations will save them from adding to their already long to-do list. You can increase your chances of getting a positive response by recommending two different kinds of places so they can choose what suits them best. Suggest one restaurant and one bar, in case they’d rather have casual drinks than a meal. Perhaps you can suggest options for dinner and activities (bowling and mini-golf are two excellent options). 

Don’t be too pushy

You can exchange pictures, but you shouldn’t demand any in return. Your pictures can help jumpstart it if you volunteer them without them asking. Keep it friendly and allow them to share what they feel comfortable sharing. It doesn’t mean you’re entitled to their pictures or details if you open up yours. Remember to be respectful and understanding. Even if you don’t get anything in return for putting yourself out there, keep going. Focus your energy on other opportunities instead. 

Take advantage of these tips to improve your online profile and make more connections! To get started as a swinger online, join SwingTowns and start browsing profiles today. 


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