Exciting Playtime Suggestions for Your Next Swinger Party

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So, you’re hosting a swinger party, and feeling a bit overwhelmed about the upcoming itinerary? Try not to worry or fear, but instead get yourself into planning mode. In this article, we’re talking about swinger parties and all the ways to have the most fun, even as the host. Then, we’re sharing two of the top playtime suggestions to help you keep things exciting, erotic, and tons of fun. 

Planning for Your Swinger Party Keeps the Pressure Low

One of the best ways to keep the party pressure low and guarantee you (and your guests) have a great time is by planning. It’s not just about preparing the space, the food, and the festivities. It’s also important to plan fun playtime activities to keep the night moving along and in the right direction. 

But, playtime looks a lot different in a swinger party than it does in a regular one. And, coming up with the activities beforehand can reduce pressure and keep things light-hearted and fun. Here are some fun and exciting suggestions to keep the party going. 

drinking at a swinger party

2 Tips for Turning Up the Fun at Your Next Swinger Party

Instead of sitting back and watching your swinger party go south, make sure that you’re prepared for anything. With playtime already planned, you can gently guide everyone back to the purpose of the party when things get off track. Here are two ways to do just that.

1. Tap into Role Play

A great way to really get into the moment with all of your senses is through role-playing. It’s also a wonderful opportunity to get to know your party guests. You can encourage this immersive fun from the beginning by instructing party guests to wear a sexy costume or masquerade mask. Then, as everyone becomes more comfortable, more imaginative play can begin. Some great ideas for role-playing include:

  • Doctor/nurse/patient
  • Dancers and watchers
  • Master and servants
  • Teacher and students

2. Experiment with Your Food

A great swinger party always has food. And, if you’ve really planned for a fun night, the food can be incorporated into fun foreplay and excitement in the bedroom. That’s because adding food into play helps to include all the senses in the experience. And, it’s a wonderful opportunity for integrating an additional type of play often viewed as “taboo” or “forbidden.” Some ideas for adding food into your erotic play, include eating sensually without breaking eye contact, using your partner’s body as a serving platter, and stimulating erogenous zones with different food textures. 

To help facilitate the most satisfying experience, make sure you go shopping for the right foods beforehand. Some of the best sweet, sexy selections include strawberries, bananas, whipped cream, chocolate, marshmallows, grapes, and melons. 

getting cozy at a swinger party

Make it Easy to Have Fun at Your Next Swinger Party

The most important goal to keep in mind, as the swinger party host, is to create an environment that’s relaxed, welcoming, and sensual. It’s important not to set unrealistic expectations, but creating a space that encourages play is the most effective way to do this. And, don’t forget, your swinger party (and many others) can be featured for locals on the SwingTowns event page.


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