Everything You Need to Know about Swinging and Double Penetration

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For many swingers and people in open relationships, activities involving double penetration are some of the most satisfying. This is because, for many, nothing is quite as fulfilling as pushing the limits and seeing what their body is capable of. Have you ever considered exploring your (or your partner’s) body this way? This article is all about swinging and double penetration. 

We’re talking about what it is and the many double penetration positions. Then, we’re sharing some of the top tips for enjoying a successful, enjoyable double penetration experience. 

Swinging and Double Penetration: What is It?

As the name suggests, double penetration (DP) is a sex act that involves penetrating two holes in one person’s body or penetrating one hole with two toys or body parts. For women, double penetration offers a “fullness” that can’t be found in regular sex. Many people on the receiving side of double penetration describe the event to be overwhelming and exciting; it’s something that really pushes the limits – in a good way!

The Different Double Penetration Positions

Double penetration isn’t exactly how it’s depicted in those porn videos you might’ve seen. In real life, there’s lots of awkward positioning and laughter. This is all part of the process! Some of the most accessible DP positions include:

DP Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl: The woman mounts one man (forward or reverse style, depending on the position), allowing the other man access to either her anus or vagina. 

Spooning: The men lie on a bed, facing each other, with the woman between them. This gives them easy access to her holes. 

Wishbone: The most complicated of these positions, the woman lays with her legs raised in the air. The men insert her facing each other and then work in sync, as they cannot both penetrate her at the same time. 

woman preparing condoms for swinging and double penetration

Tips for Successfully Combining Swinging and Double Penetration

So, how can you ensure that your first, second, third (…and beyond?) time trying swinging and double penetration is successful? Prepare! Do your research. Ask around. And, follow these four tips. 

  • Use Generous Amounts of Lube

The more, the better. The wetter things are, the better they feel for everyone. 

  • Take Advantage of a Safe Word

Prevent anyone – especially the receiver – from feeling too overwhelmed or uneasy by providing an easy-to-remember safe word. This word will stop all activity immediately. 

Keep the communication constant and make every move intentional. Foreplay is your best friend in a double penetration scene. 

  • Experiment with a Toy

A toy can be a great low-pressure way to explore sensations. The receiver can use the toy herself, or her partner can add to the fun. 

friends hanging out for swinging and double penetration activities

Are You Ready for Your First Double Penetration Experience?

There will likely be lots of new vocabulary, experiences, and sensations in your swinging and double penetration experience. This is all part of the fun. You can start preparing yourself by discussing your fantasies, limits, and interests with your partner. Opening this line of communication can help ensure that all your needs, wants, and desires are kept in mind in every situation. 

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