4 Tips On How To Give A Blowjob The Right Way

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Let’s face the fact here. Every single living and breathing man on Earth loves getting head. And, if we are being completely honest, a lot of people enjoy giving head too. There’s something so arousing in taking control like that over your man’s shaft. In order for it to be as arousing as possible though, you will need to learn how to do it the right way and this page might have some useful tips on that.

If you haven’t done this before, don’t worry. There’s nothing wrong with admitting that you are a beginner and that you need some guidance so as to do things perfectly. After all, your man will certainly appreciate you being ready to go down on him and wanting to learn how to do it right. On the other hand, you are probably nervous since you don’t want to disappoint and, trust me if you only get a couple of tips, you definitely won’t disappoint.

Now, this doesn’t mean that people who have given head before don’t need any tips whatsoever. You might have given blowjobs to a lot of your boyfriends and you might still not be an expert in doing it. The simple truth is that there is always room for improvement when blowjobs are in question, meaning that you shouldn’t stop learning after you have done it a couple of times. Your man will certainly love the new tricks and techniques you learn.

So, it doesn’t really matter if you are a beginner or if you are experienced giving head. You will certainly find blowjob tips rather useful and there’s no doubt that your partner will love what you are doing. Therefore, if you want to make sure that you are blowing him the right way, you will need to get some useful tips and I’ll share a few of those below. Keep on reading and then call your man to try out the new tricks you have learned. Let’s get started with those tips.

If this is your first time, you might want to start by reading this: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/how-to-give-a-blowjob

Take Your Time

The worst thing you can do is just rush into the whole thing, shove your partner’s manhood into your mouth, and expect him to go crazy about what you are doing. Men love it when you take your time to play with their junk because it shows them that you are enjoying it too and if you are enjoying it, they are bound to enjoy it as well. If it looks like you want to get it all over with, your partner definitely isn’t going to get pleasure out of it.

Don’t Be Afraid To Communicate

I have mentioned above that every single man likes getting blowjobs. Well, brace yourself, because those who don’t really like it still exist and there’s nothing wrong with them telling you that right upfront. Of course, finding a man that doesn’t enjoy getting head is a rarity, but hey, it can still happen and you, as their partner, should know that. Communication is the right path to pleasure.

Now, this is not the only type of communication I have in mind. Given that you are here, you probably already have a man who absolutely loves blowjobs, but here’s the thing. Not everybody loves it done the same way. In other words, while some basic things you should do will stay the same, you should really talk to your partner about what they like and how they like things done in order to be able to give them the perfect blowjob. Think of this as customizing the blowjob to meet the needs of your particular partner.

Your Mouth Shouldn’t Be Dry

When you decide to surprise your man with a blowjob, you should pay attention to your mouth and notice if it is extremely dry. This happens a lot and it can happen for various different reasons, but it doesn’t mean that the issue cannot be solved. The problem is that a lot of people don’t think of dry mouth as a problem when it actually is. Your man certainly won’t enjoy your dry mouth and you will have a hard time performing too, which means that you need to find a way to solve this.

For example, you might want to keep bubble gums at hand, because chewing can actually make your salivary glands work better. When those glands start working better, your mouth will certainly get wet enough and you won’t need to worry about the unpleasant dryness. Of course, you might also want to invest in some mouth wash created specifically for people who have dry mouth, so that you don’t need to worry about this at all.

Don’t Forget The Balls

Learning how to give the best blowjob definitely cannot go without learning how to incorporate your man’s balls into the whole act. After all, they are there and they do deserve some attention. So, instead of ignoring your partner’s nuts, I suggest you find out whether he likes them touched, or licked, or sucked, or everything and try following the instructions. As you can see, communication is once again the key in this case, but, to be honest, most guys love it when you play with their balls, so you might not even need to ask.

That being said, I suggest you do pop the question, just in case. Don’t forget that testicles are rather sensitive, meaning that you should be extra gentle when playing with this part of your partner’s body. Make sure to get a few tricks on how to touch his balls properly and, of course, if your man is into it, take it a step further and proceed to sucking or licking, but remember to do it gently. The bottom line is that you always have to keep in mind the sensitivity of his balls, but don’t be afraid to play with them, because it can be extremely hot.


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